Rhonj’s Jenn Fessler reveals matters led to a department from a husband

Real housewives in New Jersey star Jenn Fessler revealed that she and her husband Jeff Fessler Intell their marriage for seven years.

“My marriage was definitely not my priority at the time and it wasn’t even for Jeff,” Jenn, 54, shared during the episode “Podcast for part 2”Published on Thursday 20 February. “We just didn’t join. We did not join the emotional level and did not connect to the physical level. ”

Jenn sincerely shared that “eventually” found that Jeff had a ratio.

“That was a hard day.” The podcast is not long enough to get to all the details of it all, but I will tell you it was a very strange thing, ”Jenn recalled. “This woman with whom Jeff was involved with, and I had this conversation and I don’t know, almost immediately I knew something came out.” But this is not the meaning of this story about a big picture. But I, as you would expect, completely lost my mind. ”

Bravo star She admitted she wasn’t completely innocent and explained that she was “out” with her friends every Thursday evening to drink and “flirt with the boys”. Initially, Jenn said she had no “ratio”, but she started to “look” at other men.

“I began to long for the attention I had been doing for years from men,” Jenn explained. (Elsewhere in the episode of Jenn, she said, “I’m honest with the Jeff affair and then I had my own affairs, plural.”)

Jenn explained that He felt a kind of way After Jeff was the one who first stepped out of their marriage.

“I think I knew there was a part of me that knew it not only took two, but I was almost lucky that it was the first because I could place all the guilt on it,” she added. “But I flirted with other people and anything.” I know I was aiming in this direction. ”

They stayed together for a year after the affair before they officially separated. (Jenn noted that she went to visit her sister in Florida and found her own “little friend”.)

Jenn and Jeff were separated for almost two years, with any of them Moves to divorcebefore we get back. During their department, Jenn had a new friend, but at one point she began to meet Jeff to talk about their relationship. (Jenn and Jeff are the parents of the son Zachary, 24 years and daughter Rachel, 22.)

“He was so sure we were making a mistake all the time.” And I think I was … in my heart I knew it was a mistake, ”she continued. “I just didn’t want to live my life without Jeff Fessler.”

Jenn said that her “life began again” when she and Jeff have come to terms and are still “best friends”.

“We do the best we can and fight and have unfortunate moments and unfortunate periods,” she added. “I feel very, great luck that I caused my marriage to work.”