Rachael Kirkonnell says Matt James did not tell her about the breakup post

Rachael Kirkonnell claimed Matt James He did not tell her that he was planning to announce their breakup through social media.

KirkConnell, 28, said on Tuesday 28 January, a performance at “Call her dad“Podcast hosted Alex Cooperthat James, 33, was blind to her disintegration via Instagram 16 January.

“It didn’t even sleep to give me a warning as if to say,” Hey, I publish it, “” Kirkonnell, who found love with James during the season 25 Bachelorsaid. “It just hurts to know, so my friends learned in my family and my little sister.” I shouldn’t have talked to them or privately mourn them like a day. ”

Despite James, the shock move, which she also called “F – D up” during the interview, Kirkonnell added that “she spoke to all of this”.

The post of break -up from James, who found a match in KirkConnell in the TV show of reality in 2021, presented a photo of a former couple that appeared on Bachelor Like the headline he read, “Give God, give Rachael and I strength to fix our broken heart. Give us peace of this decision to end our relationship that goes beyond secular understanding. Shower our friends and family with kindness and love to comfort us. ”

Kirkconnell confirmed at the podcast that she and James had broken down “the same day” James’ Post began to live.

Kirkconnell’s interview Podcast also plunged into what she believed that James’s motivation was behind his breakup post, revealing that she was still confused. “I don’t know if it was just that it was so processed, if it was from anger, or if it was one of those things where he felt like he had to do it to really put a coffin nail,” she told Cooper 30. “I know it definitely acknowledges that it was not the right decision.

Kirkconnell and James broke up for the first time recording Bachelor wrapped and revealing their separation during After the last roses Special, which was broadcast in March of that year. The couple reconciled one month after a special TV.

This second division came as the main shock for fans who have closely followed the path of the couple over the years. In October 2024, James even teased the possibility of marriage during the performance at the podcast “de Influed with Dani + Jordan”.

“I think this is another step,” James joked during an interview, which also introduced Kirkconnell. “After I had so many Rachael’s friends, he didn’t dare look at the ring without advising Rachael first.”

Kirkonnell’s deep interview “her dad” has also expanded to include the consequences of James’s breakup and describes in detail how they were awakened by calling James at 1 hour less than a week after the post grew.

“He just asked how I was doing,” Kirkconnel told Cooper. “Like, how do you think I’m doing?” I confronted him with the post … And then he was like, yeah, I fully admit that I could do it much better. And apologized. ”

KirkConnell added that “she doesn’t want people to think”, James is a bad person. “But of course he made a mistake … I think it regrets,” she said.

Podcast also revealed how Kirkconnell believed James hadn’t seen compatible properties In it, which eventually led to the division of the couple. “He said that at the end of the day there were only qualities that were worried about having in his wife,” she explained. “At the end of the day there are things that we are not compatible with and all responsibility and say sorry and everything that was really the main thing.”